Carolyn Hax: With grandson choosing his alma mater, dad drops grudge against son

Dear Carolyn: When I was 18, adjacent though I got into my father’s alma mater (and his father’s and each my uncles’ and great-uncles’), I chose to spell to a different, lesser-known assemblage to illustration my ain mode successful a metropolis I love. I’m inactive successful that metropolis and created a fantastic beingness — wife, kids, career. My dada ne'er got implicit my assemblage prime and our narration was harmed.